What a Fucking Year!!! My 2012 in Review Diva Style

I can't believe that in a few hours we will be counting down to 2013! What a year this has been! I swear it seems like yesterday I was gearing up for 2012. I have so much to be thankful for this year, I accomplished so much, and have been setting things in place for 2013. My year started out traveling to Jamaica and Mexico. I love the Caribbean especially when it proves as an escape from the cold in NYC. I had such a great time enjoying the local foods, warm sun and clear water. I had the pleasure of traveling a lot in 2012 in addition to Mexico and Jamaica I also hit Belize, Antigua, Barbuda, Costa Rica and Nicaragua. I am looking forward to graduating in May of 2013 with my Bachelors degree and starting grad school. I have been busy with my PR company and am working with 3 successful clients, one is an amazing Filmmaker and Script Writer, another has a brilliant business model which includes helping Entrepreneurs find their voice and pairing Mothers and Daughters as business partners.

    My other client is still in the development phase of her Not for Profit which will help inner city youth learn and become more engaged in school through theater. They have been keeping me very busy and I can't wait to unleash the wrath of greatness all of these women possess on the world. Through my travels and going back to school has been part of a major goal for me. That goal is to open a school in Central America, where there is such a need for Education, Arts and Recreation. I am on my way to starting the  first step, I will be launching a program in March working with girls in the South Bronx based on my 4 principles of being a Diva. (Determined Innovative Vocal Active) Through these 4 principles I think actually I know that I will make a difference. I also turned the big 35! That was such a milestone for me, I think a lot of things came in to perspective especially for me as a Mom. My son made 17 this year, and I am still in shock that I have a child that old. My son is an amazing young man and I am truly thankful to have him, he makes me proud every single day. One thing that I have always taught my son is that giving back and helping others is very important. Although his passion is helping animals, we have partnered together on a project. I have taken my passion for gifts and creating and started Do Good Goodies (website launching soon DoGoodGoodies.com). Whether its goodies bags for a kids party, or a gift basket for someone in your office's birthday we've got you covered. From every sale we make a portion is used to buy school or art supplies for NYC Public School students who live in Homeless Shelters. Working for many years in the shelter system with kids, that's one thing that no parent ever wants to go through with their children.

       A lot of my clients are parents and they love the fact that in addition to purchasing something for their child, they are helping a child in need. There are so many great things in store for 2013 with Do Good Goodies but I can't share them just yet. Stay tuned for the launch of the website and some exciting news! In 2012 I also exhibited my photography at the Soho Gallery for Digital Art. I am so thankful to have been given this opportunity and I look forward to exhibiting more of my work in 2013. On the East Coast in November we endured the effects of Mother Nature with Hurricane Sandy. In the area I live we were without power for about 4 days and as much as that was an inconvenience that's all it was. I did not lose my life, a place to live or any of my family. In the midst of it I got to meet and blog for Katie Couric The week after Thanksgiving I held a fundraiser at Bar None in addition to an online campaign and to date have raised over $1500 to help people affected by Sandy.


    Again I may do not much but I do what I can. In 2012 I also started 2 meetup groups one that focuses on Food and the other focuses on Moms who want to give back. These groups have been so much fun for me, I love planning events and getting people together to share, exchange and learn. I look forward to the growth of both in 2013.  The last few weeks of the year were so busy for me with holiday parties, visiting friends, but I also witnessed a Miracle my best friend of 27 years has an adopted daughter he went through a heart transplant in 2010, through all of it 2 years later she is still going strong! I had the pleasure of attending Google's holiday party at the Waldorf Astoria, a friend works there and invited me as their guest! It was such a great time, I can't even put it in words. All I can say is those people know how to reward their employees! I am pretty sure there are some things that I am forgetting but overall 2012 was a very progressive and eventful year for me. My little cousin who is not so little any more became a mom and a wife, and my best friend of over 25 years got married and guess who officiated the wedding? Yeah it was a great year, I have tried to put my words in some photos I tried to keep it to a decent amount, I had no idea how many damn pictures I took this year.! From my family to yours I wish you a prosperous and successful 2013!

                                                      2012 a Year in Review

See ya Next Year :-)
The Diva

My Response to one Mom's Blog Post on Huffington Post about her kid and an iPhone

I have been off from work the last week and have had more than ample time to catch up on reading, current events, and even did some baking. I was reading an article via Twitter on Huffington Post about a woman who had just bought her 13 year old son an iPhone for Christmas because he is such a responsible kid. She goes on to state that the kid has to follow her contract of rules in order to keep the phone. So while I applaud her for taking the time to come up with such a concept, I am not quite sure that all of  her methods will work.  Here is my responses to her 18 rules let me know if you agree, or disagree and what has worked with your own children?

1-She starts the article stating that the phone is his. Yet this rule clearly states otherwise. This I don't agree with, if you are giving the phone as a gift and your son had to invest none of his own money whatsoever than this should be a no brainer. The phone is his because he will do what we wants with the phone whether you think you "own" it or not.

2- I do agree with knowing the password, not so much to spy unless I am given a reason but if the phone is lost or stolen, there are apps that you can install and knowing the password is a must. It's also comes in handy in case you really do need to check up on your kid, but guess what they can CHANGE the password at anytime without telling you. 

3-If it rings answer it? OK how many teenagers except for maybe a few girls left talk on the phone anymore? Its all about texting. I do agree if your parents call you answer.

4-This one just took all the joy of being a kid with a phone. I do think you should set limits but damn!

5-If you want the kid to focus on real relationships why by the kid a phone in the first place? She even states that she can't wait to "exchange a million text messages' with him, sounds a little hypocritical to me.

6-I do agree if the phone gets damaged as a result of his carelessness he should pay for the replacement, unfortunately this kid wont' have the phone in his possession long enough to let anything happen to it. I also think that if he's old enough to do the things to replace the phone, those should be the same things he did to get the phone in the first place with his own money.

7,8, 9- For me these are kind of redundant and if she is that concerned that her kid may not handle himself properly, or a phone will cause him to lose his morals and decency maybe they should sit down for a chat.

10- 13 year old boy! Nuff said

11-She says her son is not a rude person, so why does she feel the need to keep telling him things he should already know? I do agree the phone should be turned off when you are in places where that by it ringing would be a nuisance.

12- Hmmm coming from a mother who is a blogger. Not sure I agree with this one either or believe it.

13-The fact that she knows her son will laugh at her mentioning him sending pictures of his private parts makes me think that she knows he may be capable of it, or have friends that have already done it. Kids are effing CRAFTY!

14-OK! Leave the phone home sometimes? How is he supposed to answer it when mom and dad call (rule #3)? Why would buy such an expensive and advanced piece of technology f you want him to learn to live without it? She could have just never bought it.

15-This kid can't even choose his own music? What the hell is left in all of this??

16-How about just buying an actual puzzle and you, him and dad can do it together. Game Night anyone?

17- Does she Live in New York City? This things may work in Whoville.

18- What does Dad have to say about this? I do agree with the phone being taken away if he messes up and discussing it.

I have a 17 year old son who just got an iPhone in August we had an upgrade on his account since last year and I had not used it. We waited for the hubbub of the iPhone 5 release and went to Best Buy and got him an iPhone 4 for $50. My son does not have his own Itunes account, if he wants to download any apps whether they are free or not he has to ask me for my password, and I can also see the apps he downloads. I know his passwords to his email account, as well as cell phone and I have never really used them. When we talked about getting him the phone, my main concerns were his safety people being robbed for phones, every day concerned me more than anything. He goes to a really strict all boys private school, phones are allowed but god forbid if they go off. He has never been in trouble in school for his cellphone, in fact hes never been in trouble in school for anything. I did not lay a lot of rules on him about the phone because I want to let him know that I trust him, and its his to use. However if I sense anything funky trust me I will be all up in his business. When he started a Facebook page he was so excited, and it eventually wore off. I deleted my Facebook account last year and have no intent on returning. As a mom, full time employee, and a college student cell phones, have become a way to communicate with your child. I do not want my son to fear using his phone, or leave it at home on purpose because he has a fear of messing up, or just doesn't want to be bothered with me. I want him to know that as with anything else this is a part of his life, but its NOT his life. Although Mrs. Burley-Hoffman has great intentions I do not think they are realistic, and I also think if she has this much concern and fear about her son having this phone, she should have left it in the store.  Or started him out with a less advanced phone and make him earn the iPhone.The times are changing and we whether we change or not, or kids are growing up in the heart of technology. We have to be able to come to a medium where we allow them to live their lives, but never forget that we are their parents and at any given moment we will exercise our rights to do just that.

Peace,

The Diva

Using Store Registries to Get What You Need

As another holiday season is slowly easing out 2013 will bring more birthdays, baby showers, retirements, housewarmings, weddings, etc. I am not opposed to people creating registries to get what they need for their big day, but I am opposed to people using registries for evil! First off know your people, don't think because you invite 100 people and put 200 gifts on a registry that you will strike gold. Some people don't even look at registries, they have a budget or a predetermined gift they plan on giving and that's what you are going to get. Don't pick items for your registry based on my salary! So what we work at the same job, and I make more money than you that doesn't mean I am going to buy you a set of $500 pots because frankly We ain't that close! When it comes to babies and kids ask for what you need, you will have years to dress your kids up in stupid hats, and ridiculous outfits to take photos of them, that they will only hate you for later. Dealing in real time, babies need a lot of shit! Whether its diapers, wipes, blankets,bottles etc these things are necessary and can be costly! Ask for what you need! Even as your child gets older when its time for a birthday have a party, and you can even create a registry for the kid at any age. Until my son was about 13 I did his birthday registry at Toys R Us he was allowed to ask for 5 items one of which included Gift Cards. Especially when they are little toys take up a lot of space, and how many toys can a 3 year old play with at once. Ask for what the kid needs and GIFT CARDS! Definitely put 3-5 age appropriate toys, a few clothing items and GIFT CARDS! Let people know that you are limited on space, and to save them time and headaches you are only asking for what little Billy needs! If you really want to give back to your guests, or relatives who are supplying the gift cards send out a note or card with little Billy using, wearing, the item that they purchased! With a big THANK YOU! As parents it can be a lot of work telling other adults NO! but its your child and you know whats best! I like using sites like Amazon, Target that are multipurpose and will grow with my child. As they get older plan theme parties maybe Billy's birthday includes a makeover of his room and you need the accessories nothing wrong with asking for those. Just be creative and consistent! If you need any tips feel free to contact me!

Peace,
The Diva

Really They are Going to Make a Gender Neutral Easy Bake Oven but they Still Won't put Men in Pregnancy Test Commercials?

I received an email a few weeks ago from Change.org regarding a petition started by a little girl for her brother. Her brother so badly wanted an Easy Bake Oven for Christmas but she wanted the toy company to make a "boy" friendly model. My first response to this was aww that's so cute, I love to see kids taking action, the petition spread like wildfire. Today I read that Hasbro will be unveiling a gender neutral Easy Bake oven that should appeal to boys and girls. So there are a few elements that layer this cake, first does the color really matter that much? If you have a son that wants to cook why can't he cook with the oven the way it is? Are boys going to Toy Stores and picking out the ovens as is and their parents are telling them they can't have it because its Pink or Purple? Or are little boys saying the color really maters that much that they could not play with the toy? I know as a kid a toy was a toy as long as it served its purpose I played with it. I do admire Hasbro for saying they will put more boys in the ads so this makes me wonder, what about adult men? Where are they when it comes to Pregnancy Test Commercials, and Female Contraceptives? How many husbands/boyfriends purchase feminine products for their wives when "mother nature" pays them a visit. Why do we never see that on TV? Are there no writers creative enough to make a commercial that is both realistic and informative or are we just not there yet? The only times I see both man and woman together are in the KY jelly commercials or post childbirth for products such as detergent or cars. So to me it seems the media basically conveys the message that Pregnancy, and Contraception are a woman's issue that has nothing to do with men. Condom commercials always portray men as manly, powerful and hooking up with the Hot Chick and making the choice. Why not the reverse? Why not a commercial with a Hot Woman picking up a Hotter Guy and taking him out, and when the time to get luck arrives she pulls out the condom. Are we really that sensitive? I hope this Easy Bake controversy opens the door to a bigger discussion on gender roles and how they are displayed in the media and the effects it has on our young people. 

Peace,

The Diva

8 Things I Would make Happen to Improve Public Schools In the South Bronx

If you are an avid follower of me on Twitter or just know me in general. You know that one of the things I am most passionate about is Education. I truly believe that without it you are destined to fail. Growing up in the South Bronx young people there are born with a disadvantage when it comes to Economics and Education. In the 80's and 90's when I was a student in Elementary and Middle school I went to 2 of the best schools in the district at the time. S.P.S. 31 and Elijah D Clark J.H.S. 149.  Both schools offered a rigorous curriculum, employed seasoned teachers if measure by today's standards would be called "dinosaurs". My education was free but not sacrificed, I learned about Shakespeare and had read Hamlet understood it, acted it out and saw connected it at Lincoln Center before 7th grade as well as Carmen and La Traviatta. I was in my Elementary Schools Opera club. I loved learning, and teachers made it fun and had a way of connecting it to my every day life. Summer school, failing, credit recovery, online classes were not options that existed. You did the work or you failed, and I never wanted to fail. I now work in my old school district as a Parent Coordinator in the building where I spent my middle school years. The district has changed, it went from being one of the strongest to one of the most unsuccessful and poorest. The neighborhood has not changed much in terms of demographics, the community is still poor and has become more dangerous. One of the main reasons I wanted to come back to "my school" was to serve as a role model for other students in that community. People give the South Bronx a really hard time, which is understandable because its a really rough neighborhood but it still has talent, love and a sense of community. I became a mom at the age of 18 although that wasn't the life I imagined for myself I got through it and raised a very amazing young man. I never forgot where I came from, but I never let where I came from deter me from where I wanted to go. I have traveled all over the world, have met some great people who do amazing things every day to make our world a better place, which is why it frustrates me when I see what goes on in NYC Public Schools, and Public Education in general. I don't make a lot of money in fact I make around $36,000 a year. There are so many people in our schools who don't do it for the money, or to build a resume they do it because they are dedicated, love what they do and see the potential when no one else does. I am thankful that over the years I spent as a student I had a solid foundation of teachers who saw talent in me that I didn't see in myself and pushed me to keep going. I always said if I could be that to a child one day, then I have lived a complete life. I am all about giving back, and today's society is all about taking. It can be so frustrating, and spirit crushing when you have to deal with the negative aspects of what is already a thankless job. In essence when you are a teacher or work with young people you are providing a service, and sometimes it takes years to know if you what you did or said made any difference. One of the things that pisses me off is the ineffectiveness of the way schools are run. How can a failing principal who has been a failing principal for years still collect a 6 figure salary? How is that allowed and who does that hurt? Teachers who come in to low performing or socioeconomically challenged areas to teach for 3 years and have their Masters degree paid for by a program if they can last and get tenured only to leave and teach in a better community that's less challenging? I see it as a lot of people profiting off of a problem without any intent to make it better. You have schools with less than 8oo students that have an administration budget that rivals Obama's cabinet, yet the special ed students don't have the resources they need or the teachers. Jonathan Kozol was one of the first author's I read that gave me a behind the scenes look at the fuckery taking place in our schools. If you are not familiar with him you have to read his books he offers amazing insight. My goal is to open my own school one day in Central America, I am starting an after school program in February for students in the South Bronx which will serve as the pilot for my mission. I love to play What If, and as it pertains to education in the South Bronx here is what I would do if I were Mayor or Chancellor.

1- What If instead of giving Principals bonuses sometimes upwards in the amount of $25,000 for their pocket that money had to be used for their school? The bonuses would  have to be based on performance from teachers, students, administration and Parental Involvement not just data and test scores. All involved parties should decide on what the school would do with the money.

2- What if teachers who come to teach in these communities were made to live in the communities for  6 months and spent 6 months observing students from Pre-K to High School. This way they would be familiar with behaviors, economic situations, poor living conditions, improper nutrition, and lack of resources. To truly understand someone and empathize you need to walk in their shoes, and by doing this teachers would not only understand their students and the issues they will be facing they will know if they are equipped to handle it.

3-What if Parents were made to sign a contract that they will be committed to ensuring they stay involved in their child's education but the school also serves as a resource to make that happen. School would take place Monday-Thursday and Fridays would be meeting days for Parents and Teachers to conference. This way there is communication all year long not just 5 minutes twice a year during a parent teacher conference.

4- What if teachers were allowed to rate the administration? A lot of time in schools there is an  US and them mentality between administration and teachers. Teachers are constantly evaluated and measured but never the other way around. One way to tear down that wall is to make things transparent, if everyone is on the same page and treated equally things could work better.

5- What if there were Parent Report Cards- I am all about accountability and Parents are the glue that holds things together. They need to know what they are doing and what they are not doing, not to be accusatory but to find out how best to help them. By helping them we are helping everyone after them they may be in a similar situation this is how we build strategies and implement effective programs to help our students achieve their full potential.

6- What if money was taken out of the pockets of failing principals and assistant principals, by doing this you have a better chance of someone working harder to prove results and be successful. I admire charter schools for their AT Will approach when it comes to hiring teachers and administration. If you are failing the students why do I need you?

7-What if we go rid of the High School Diploma and students graduated with an Associates Degree? I have been saying this for the longest time and read a New York Times article a few months ago about a series of new High Schools that will be 6 years and students will do just that. Glad to know I am not too radical and crazy in my thinking sometimes..

8-What if we took better care of our teachers? I don't mean only monetarily but mentally and physically. Teaching is not an easy job, and in some schools teachers have no say and are trying to educate under difficult circumstances.  Try serving 150 customers in a 5 hour period with only a 3 minute break in between each hour and not being measured on how much money you took in but rather that every customer felt they were provided with excellent service. How effective would you be? We need to protect our teachers in NYC you can get 5-7 years for assault for spitting on a MTA worker, such a law does not exist for teachers. Teachers need to have a mentor that they check in with 3 times a week to make sure they are OK, and have the support they need to do their jobs properly.

I could probably add another 20 things to this list but I am going to stop here, regardless of where my future projects take me I will always come back to the South Bronx. There is a need for role models and mentors there. Students need to know that there is a successful way out and they can go on to do great things and I will not stop drawing attention to those who see them as an easy paycheck.

Peace,
The Diva

Do you work Hard TO Improve Your Quality of Life or Just to be able to Buy Shit?

I have always considered myself a citizen of the world, or as my grandmother would say "a hippie". Its true I love the world, exploring, learning and sharing it with others. I really do wonder why we all just can't get along? I can make myself at home pretty much anywhere. Growing up in NYC gives you a great foundation, but it can also spoil you and blind you with all the unnecessary bullshit we have. Don't get me wrong I like being able to go and get a falafel at 2am and wash it down with a thai iced tea all within blocks of my apartment, and if I am really feeling lazy there's a little thing called delivery that will being me what I want when I want it. Yeah! NYC life is good! The downside is New York is expensive as Fuck! In most cases a lot of people are working to pay bills, and keep a roof over their head. We are a very hardworking culture but we are stressed the fuck out most of the time, between overcrowded subways, jobs we hate, rising food prices, rising rents and jobs we hate Did I say that Twice? We work our asses off and yet our quality of life sucks. I read an article a few weeks ago that stated New Yorker's were not only some of the most unhappiest when it comes to their jobs, but we also drink a lot. If you have never been to New York I completely understand the fascination, the tall buildings, fancy parties, moving and shaking, endless restaurants and clubs. All of that is great but the one tidbit that people leave out is that, that shit costs money! So many people in NY live outside of their means, and depend on credit cards just to keep up appearances. This is where I differ from a lot of NY'ers I love my city but when i get a chance to leave I enjoy it. I love being able to be surrounded by warm blue water, sun fresh food, happy people, nature in essence a better quality of life. My last few trips out of the country have been very interesting as all of the places I have stayed at have either been owned by or managed by Canadians. Why is that? My long term goal is to build a school in Central America I am between Nicaragua (which has need) and Costa Rica (which would be easier with the government). I can not wait to leave NY and wake up somewhere with cleaner air, fresher food, and friendlier people, without having to kill myself to keep paying bills. I have never been a materialistic person so although I know people spending their paychecks on handbags, dinners and shoes I covert my extra cash into traveling. Right now I am looking to purchase property overseas and build something on it, nothing to big but something that can employ some of the local people, and will bring me a sense of knowing that I will have a place waiting for me when its time to leave the Big Apple

Peace from Belize,
The Diva

Help! What Should have been A Dream Vacation has become a NIGHTMARE!!

I love a good deal as much as the next penny pincher but sometimes things happen that make me wish I would have just gone ahead and paid full price and save myself the headaches. In January of last year my fiance and I purchased a deal via Living Social for 6 nights in Belize at the Almond Beach Resort. For 6 nights excluding airfare we paid $695 not an extravagant amount of money but in today's economy every penny counts. We decided in September we would take the trip around his 50th birthday in December. He contacted the resort in September to make the reservations, we were booked! We spent $1,000 on plane tickets. We thought we were all set. Paul asked me to contact the resort to confirm our arrangements because we were leaving at the end of the week. Upon calling I noticed that the Living Social clearly states that we purchased 6 nights in an Ocean View room at Almond Beach Resort, yet the confirmation that was emailed to us came from Jaguar Reef Resort, and I noticed we were being charged an additional $50 for a 2 bedroom suite for the 1st night and then the following day would be moved to a Cabana for the remainder of out stay. We also needed to pay an additional $123.62 for Round trip transportation to and from the resort/airport. So our $1700 trip is now up to $1873.62 not including taxes and the $25.00 per day resort fee. So I contact Almond Beach to find out exactly what it is going on, the representative there tells me that they are "sister resorts" located on the same property but Almond Beach's room has more modern Furniture and better views. I explain that our voucher was clearly for Almond Beach so how could someone from Jaguar Reef book the reservation. She goes on to explain that the representative should have checked the voucher number because Jaguar Reef and Almond Beach were running simultaneous Living Social Deals. I asked were there rooms available for the time we were coming and she explained they were sold out. I thank her for her time and explain that I am not happy. I contact the representative at Jaguar Reef that made our reservation her name is Yolaine. She explains that she took the reservation, I asked why didn't she check the voucher number before booking since thats the procedure per the rep at Almond Beach. She said that "We are so busy, and people keep calling and calling I must have forgot." Hmmm ok! So I tell her I wanted to go over our arrival time so our transportation could know what time to be there. She says she will send me an email with the info I say ok. This is what I get mind you this is 2 days before we are leaving and this trip was booked in September.

Dear Guests,

The most convenient way to get to our resort is a 20 minute commuter flight from the Belize airport to Dangriga airstrip. Maya Air Charges $148 per person round trip for this flight and we can then arrange shuttle service from The Dangriga airstrip to the resort ,35 minutes drive and cost $123.75 round trip for up to  2 people . If you would like my assistance in booking the flights and shuttle, I will need the names of everyone traveling and the international flight arrival and departure times out of Belize airport. I can include the above charges on your confirmation sheet and you can call our toll free number 1-888-731-1132 to provide credit card details for payment.

Best regards,

Yolaine

My first reaction reading this was what the Hell is she talking about! I thought we needed to get to airport, get a taxi go to resort, check in and be on the beach by noon. That's how it usually goes. I ask her to call me to discuss, and apparently the resort is located 2.5 hours by car from the Belize International Airport which if you decide to have someone drive you can cost $225US each way and that was the cheapest quote I got. So now our only option is to take a 15-20 minute flight that ends up costing $141.00 per person so we're up to $2155.62 not including taxes and resort fees or the fact that we haven't even got there yet! At this point I am beyond pissed and ask Yolaine why was this information not sent to us or mentioned to us when we booked in September she responds "When I sent the confirmation to Paul I accidentally attached it twice instead of attaching the transportation info in addition" (The note posted above in red) I also asked her why wasn't this posted on the voucher, or made clearer by Living Social she claims that both resorts have asked Living Social to state this information when the deals run but they refuse. So we contact Living Social and after 4 email exchanges detailing everything this is what they send us this morning

Thank you for your patience. We’re sorry to hear you ran into some issues redeeming your Almond Beach Belize voucher. Our Merchant Services team was able to reach out to the merchant and discuss your concerns.  The initial contact and reservation was made with the Jaguar Reef, not Almond Beach.  Since the reservation was made with the wrong location and the voucher was not redeemed properly, we're unable to credit your account.  We also looked into your concern about the additional airfare. We understand there is an additional flight required to get to your destination. Airfare for this deal is not included.  There is good news. Although Almond Beach did not have any availability, Jaguar Reef agreed to accommodate your reservation and accept the voucher as payment.  Since the Jaguar Reef and Almond Beach are sister properties you will still be able to enjoy the same restaurants, beach and amenities. Although this may not be the outcome you were hoping for, we wish you happy and safe travels.   If you still have questions, please reply to this email.  Thanks for LivingSocial! Stephanie | Consumer Services | LivingSocial | help.livingsocial.com

I have 2 major issues with this number 1 I know that I was not going to walk to Belize so of course Airfare would not be included, but there was never mention that we needed to book additional flights once we got to Belize and secondly you say that We Did Not Redeem the Voucher Properly so we cant be refunded but the good news is they are sister resorts? WTF we didn't redeem the voucher improperly the property that you used redeemed it improperly and we didn't find out until after the fact. I do not know the best way to handle this situation because this trip has cost so much more than we anticipated having to spend. I really think Living Social should be clearer with the Merchants they deal with as well as the customers because I really felt like we got shafted on this so called Deal! We are leaving tomorrow I hope I am blinded by the Beauty of Belize that I will forget all the nonsense that has gone on in the last 72 hours. 

What Would You Do?

The Diva

Asian Man + Black Woman= Hot Movie!

Living in NYC you see a lot of things on a daily basis. The one thing that never amazes me is interracial couples. I am talking beyond the black/white. I mean Indian with Mexican or Polish with African there is never a shortage of possibilities. The combinations are endless. One thing you don’t see to often is a Black Female with an Asian Male. However you will see the opposite. Being the type of person I am I have always felt that Interracial Relationships have never received the recognition they deserve in the media especially. This is America the Melting Pot what better way to express ourselves to the world than by showing how the Pot of Cultures we pride ourselves on becomes a wonderful mix of Diversity and Pride…Well finally there is a movie that is talking about just that. It is called Akira’s Hip Hop Shop it is an indie Film which stars James Kyson Lee from NBC’s Heroes and Emayatzy Corinealdi who is currently starring in Ava DuVernay's Middle of Nowhere
The movie deals with his falling in love and having a relationship with a Black Woman and the challenges that come along with it. More of these types of films and characters need to be on screen to have a very much needed conversation in society. Why is there so much controversy when a non black man chooses a black woman?

http://www.akirashiphopshop.com/

Be Great,

The Diva

Congratulations Mr. President

What a night! I had such a long day yesterday I didn't get a chance to stay up to watch all of the votes come in. I work up to text messages and emails of celebration, and victory! What an amazing feeling. Regardless of  race or political affiliation of the 2 Obama was the better candidate all around in my opinion. I am glad that the people have chosen to give him another 4 years to lead our country although it will probably take lifetimes before its really fixed. I am just glad that in my lifetime as a black woman and the mother of a young black man that I have not only been able to witness history but was a part of making it happen. I hope the next 4 years are a time of improvements and remarkable successes for our country. There has been so much loss, and poverty people need a break! They need a leader that is about the people, I understand the President can't do all the work by himself he needs the help of the citizens! I am willing to do my part. Are you?

Be Great,
The Diva

Headed to the Polls Bright and Early

I woke up super early this morning so I go could cast my vote! It amazes me how many people still don't vote for a myriad of reasons. There are definitely things I wish were different, and living in NY I feel like politics is just a game of people who make a bunch of empty promises, and try to get as much attention as possible. The presidential election is something that is special for so many reasons. Whether your candidate wins or loses, you possess a right that countries are fighting for and dying for. This is also a great time to talk about policies and government with your children. When they ask for that extra $ for allowance, or wonder why their school doesn't have enough text books or teachers. Politics affects all of us as soon as we enter this world. So getting up a few minutes early to travel a few extra block is worth  the possibility of being a part of a better world.

Go Vote,
The Diva

Real Divas Carry Mag-Lites

Living in New York City is always a challenge because of the daily trials and tribulations we face. There is always something a stalled train on your way to work, crime, rising rents but no difference in your paycheck. I think you get my point. Well hurricane Sandy shook NYC to its core. We usually are just watching these storms on TV happen in some other city, or country. So many people are so used to us being "unaffected" that they didn't think the storm would be "that bad". Well Sandy came and she conquered. I am thankful I only lost power and water for a few days, and I was able to go back home Friday evening. As I get back to existing and dealing with life in NYC I am sad. So many people lost everything, I mean everything. So many people lost their lives! It's just a hard pill for me to swallow, but it makes me grateful. I am in the midst of planning a fundraiser on November 28th at Bar None to help namely the women affected by Sandy. I faced my own challenges living in lower Manhattan and having to commute to the Bronx for Work on Friday. I decided to stay with a relative that lives in the Bronx, I ended up having to walk because the subways weren't back in motion and buses were overcrowded. I got to share my story on Katie Couric's website where I am also a Guest Blogger. You can check it out here  The one thing i appreciate during this whole time was my Mag-Lite Flash light which not only provided light for me in the dark but could have doubled as a weapon luckily I only needed it to use it for its intended purpose. In the end I am thankful to still have my home, know that my family is ok, and breath in my body so I can help those who need it.


Be Great,
The Diva

5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Bitch If You Own a Business and want to be Taken Seriously

So before you start cursing me out and calling me a bitch! Let me explain. First of all lets get rid of the clinical definition of the word because none of us are dogs. Secondly lets get rid of the negative use of the word such as when people do things that are just down right stupid. Now lets look at the instances when women are called Bitches for being Assertive, Cocky, Determined, Blunt, Confident, Knowledgeable, and Successful! Aren't those all the tings that make a great businesswoman and leader? So if you have been called a bitch in the last week for 1 of these reasons keep up the Great Work! If not keep reading!

Be Assertive- So many times I go to workshops, or networking events and the women are just talking to other women, I hate this and love it! I hate it because if there are men in the room you need to be working the room! Everyone there is a business owner, I could care less if they have a Vagina or a Penis I have the balls and I am going to approach and execute all equally! I love this because this leaves all the Men free in the room for me to talk business and promote myself and make valuable connections. If you can talk shop with the best man in the room, you can talk shop with anyone. Utilize these opportunities to sharpen your skills and your message.

Introduce Yourself- Do not wait for people to come over and read your name tag and ask "so what's your business". Time is money, and time wasted is money lost. Introduce yourself to as many people as possible spend time networking with the ones that will benefit you the most.

Take a Cue From the Men- Watch how men do business, and learn from it. They play golf, they ask questions, when it comes to meetings they always offer a firm handshake, and pay attention to the guy who sits in front of the room. I can't tell you how many times I have gone to classes, meetings, events etc and the women are in the back while the first 2 rows are empty. Sit in the front, this lets others know you are confident and there for a purpose.

Communicate your Purpose- This is so important! Avoid downplaying your business, don't make it seem like a hobby. Investors do not want to invest in your hobbies. They want to invest in something that's going to give them a return on their investment, and they want someone not only passionate and professional but someone who knows their shit! Know your market, Know your numbers and Know where you are going!

Help your fellow Business Bitches- Women are strong and powerful, but so many times once we start a family or get married we are always just known as a Mom or Wife and everything else is secondary. By standing up for yourself and your business you are showing others you are one Bad Ass . . . . .well you know the rest!

From One B To Another,
The Diva

My Thoughts on this years Election as the Mother of Young Black Man and as a Proud Black Woman

The 2012 election is not only one of historic recognition but one of importance. As a black woman living in the united states I am proud to support not only Barack Obama but Michelle Obama. Our president has had to deal with a number of controversial and politically challenging issues. As a mother of a young black man and working in the field of Education in New York City my attention to President Obama and his politics has been paramount. The unique thin about this presidency is the fact that there is a woman of color in the white house. This is important for so many reasons. As a black woman I am stereotyped before people even give me a second look. Having a black woman in the white house has changed that perception, also having a woman who is intelligent, articulate and speaks highly of her husband is setting the course for monumental change. During the Democratic convention I was mesmerized and entranced by Michelle's speech. Not only was this wan aware of the issues and convincing she was speaking and supporting her husband not only as president but as a man. That's something you don't see everyday, the normal stories we see in the media put the black man in a negative light. To me that's important because I know there are good black men in our world, and there are mothers and fathers raising good black boys. So by voting for Barack you are not voting for just a black president you are voting for a change in history that will effect our world inevitably for all races for years to come.


Be Great,
The Diva

5 Tips for Dining out with Food Allergies . . .

I love food! It's almost unnatural how much I can be captivated by it. From discovering new recipes, to eating a new food in a new country I thoroughly enjoy it. Last year I decided to have a food allergy test done because I noticed certain foods were causing me to have very serious reactions. As it turns out I honestly do not understand how I survived for 35 years without an epi pen or a bubble. I not only have seasonal allergies, but I am allergic to most foods. The foods that are most severe are nuts, and fruits.With the help of my allergist and the Internet I have been able to navigate through eating very well. Especially when it comes to dining out, I love going to restaurants and out with friends but I don't want to be that person who needs to know everything in the dish and how it was made. However I dine smart, I carry benadryl with me at all times, and I ask specific questions such as Does this contain nuts?, Was this prepared with anything even next to nuts? etc, A lot of restaurants are very descriptive in their menus so its pretty self explanatory, but more restaurants need to take more initiative to bring their waitstaff up to speed and they should know what's in the dishes they are serving... So here are a few tips to not only make you proactive but to ensure you enjoy your meal . .. .

 Know Your Allergies- Know not only what you are allergic to but the reactions that happen as a result.

Carry Your Medications- If you have medications for your allergies make sure they are with you at all times.

Be Vocal- Let Waitstaff/Servers know before your order is placed that you have allergies, this saves a lot of time and money. If a server doesn't know whats in a dish, ask them to ask the kitchen or speak with the manager. Don't wait until you get a dish and realize there is something you can't eat in it.

Don't Use Your Allergies in Vain- Don't use your allergies an an excuse for a meal you didn't like, or wasn't worth the price.

Tell Your Friends- A lot my friends are my best advocates, so many times we will be out and before I can even figure out what I want they are already telling me what I can't have. It's frustrating but it definitely comes in handy!

I go to Dos Caminos a lot and one of the reasons I keep coming back is because they know me so well!

Happy Eating,
The Diva

Schools Should Take a Lesson From Google. . . . .

As a creative person I am constantly "On". Whether is a new idea, image, sound, food, everything stimulates my senses sometimes it seems like it all happens at once. Working in education has been a challenge, because I remember being a student and having teachers who were a lot older, and sharper. I also remember  my learning environment, in Elementary school I went to my neighborhood school. In 2nd grade I was transferred to another school in my neighborhood except it was for Gifted students. I attended that school from grades 3-6 and it was awesome! Not so much for the teachers, but for my environment. First of all the school looked like a castle, every day was an adventure. Its the William Lloyd Garrison School and it was an amazing place to grow up. As for my learning environment there were constant discussions, images and art all over the building, music, chorus and we were encouraged to be intelligent and ask questions. We were held accountable for our learning, but we also WANTED to learn. Kids did not go to summer school because they failed, we went to summer school to prepare for the next grade and we ENJOYED going as did our parents. Last week I had the pleasure of joining a friend for dinner at Google. She works there and invited me as her guest, which I can say I was super excited! I have read so many articles about the perks they offer their employees. Man oh Man! Why didn't someone tell me!!! It is a dream environment, to work in. I joked with my friend that whomever they chose to design the space must have ADD! The endless snack counters, video games, views of the city, food, endless fridges full of whatever you could possibly think of to drink, scooter stations, need I go on? Out of all of it the thing I really liked about it, was its a place that encourages and sparks creativity. They understand their employees and have stripped away some of the humdrum features that usually come with working for someone else. Like a time clock? There is no time clock! If you need to take a break you can go and take a snooze in the sleep pod, or sit in the library or even head over to the music room and bang out your frustration on the drums. It really is incredible. I also loved one feature that I wish I could see in a school there was a section of space where the walls were made of what looked like the material that dry erase boards are made from. So there are just endless doodles, and scribbles all over it. How many times as a kid did you have your markers or crayons and got in trouble for writing on the walls?

Be Great,
The Diva

Do you encourage your kids to be adventurous when it comes to food?

I went to dinner with a friend a few weeks to a Thai restaurant. There was a couple there with 2 small children I would guess the girl was about 7 years old and the boy around 4 or 5. As my friend and I are catching up on all the gossip and how hellish our week had been, our food arrives. All I can say is I could not wait to dive into my bowl of steaming spicy noodles, I heard a screech that almost made my ears bleed! "Iiiiiii Donnnnnnnnnt Wannnnnnnnnnt Thatttttttttt! It was the little boy screaming because he wanted cheese sticks and chicken. Mom is trying to explain to him that "its still chicken, it just looks different". The little girl on the other hand was enjoying her noodles, and picking at her father's rice. This kid is still screaming! I try to be nice and ask mom "is he ok"? She says yes "he just wants to eat cheese and chicken nuggets all the time".. I nod and say Oh ok... In my head I am thinking if you know that's all he will eat why didn't you have an emergency stash of that in your purse? Secondly maybe a restaurant that's not so kid friendly to begin with may not be the best place to expose Jr to new foods. As I said I thought this to myself.... Growing up I was a very picky eater, somehow over the years that changed. I do remember my grandmother telling me that I couldn't say I didn't like something, unless I had actually tried it. Which is what I taught my son when it came to food, although he still smells everything before he eats it! He's 16 and still does that!!! So do you encourage your kids to try new foods? What worked? and What didn't work?

Be Great,
The Diva

8 Tips For Grocery Shopping that Leave you With Change Leftover . . . . .

I love going to the Grocery store, especially when free samples and sales are involved. I have found that how you shop is just as important as where you shop. Here are a few tips that you can use that won't leave you with an empty wallet.


1- Make a List at Home- By checking while you are still home you will most likely write down exactly what you need instead of going to the store and being distracted and just buying everything.  How many times have you gone to the store for a roll of paper and came home with everything but that? Also while you are home this also gives you a chance to plan a few meals and know which ingredients you need to get and  take a few minutes to search the Internet for circulars or coupons to find out what sales are going on in your area.

2- Bring Your Own Bags- A lot of markets now will you give you a refund for bringing your own bag a refund could be anywhere from 5-15 cents per bag. That may not seem like a lot but if you are doing monthly groceries and would bring in 10 bags that's $1.50 savings!

3-Leave the Kids and Husband Home- You need to focus! By being able to execute getting exactly what you need without being distracted by $5.00 boxes of cereal and pork rinds you will most likely be a more effective shopper and not over spend!

4-Use a Basket instead of a Cart for Short Shopping Trips- If you are just going to get a few items, pick up a basket instead of getting a cart. Most likely if you start to impulse buy the basket is going to get heavy which will make you look down and assess, with a cart its a free for all! This is why most supermarkets have the carts at the entrance before the baskets! Those supermarket people are smart!

5-Leave the Credit Cards Home- Take only cash or your debit card. That way if you don't have enough you will just put some items back instead of just throwing the difference on a card.

6-Ask for Rain Checks and Price Adjustments- If an item is advertised on sale and they have run out before the sale finishes ask for a rain check, this way you can get this item at any time at the discounted price. Also ask stores what their price adjustment policy is for example I buy an item for $4.99 but tomorrow it goes on sale for $3.99 guess who owes me a dollar?

7-NO Impulse Buying or putting money in Donation Jars- Avoid the candy, magazines, nail clippers, chap stick, baby monkeys etc that they put at the counter on your way out.Any savings that you may have will be depleted by these ploys.

8- Stack your cash- Grab a jar and put any left over change in it from your shopping trip and don't count it until the end of the month!

What are some of your favorite shopping tips?

Enjoy
The Diva

Trader Joes vs Whole Foods

I live in very close proximity to Whole Paycheck....oops I meant Whole Foods. I actually like Whole Foods it my wallet that doesn't. Although there is a great variety of fresh foods, picture perfect meats, fresh bread, sweet fruits and the candy counter oh man the candy counter. With all this goodness I still walk 14 blocks to Trader Joe's. First of all the prices are much better, I have literally spent $40 in Whole Foods and come home with 1/3 of what I would have bought in Trader Joes. So there are some advantages of Whole Foods if you need quick items like water, bread, cheese, milk, eggs, some juices etc I will go there. For example bottled water the whole foods brand of Electrolyte water is $1.39 a bottle vs Trader Joes brand of Electrolyte water for $1.29 for the same sized bottle. This may not seem like a big deal but when you are buying 10 bottles that's a $1.00 which no enables me to pick up an extra bag of pasta or any number of things that TJ's offers for a buck.!  Another advantage of Trader Joes is the wine store is right next door! Hello! $3 for a bottle of wine! I am sold! At a time where every penny counts I do not have any pennies to waste or giveaway. So if you have a Trader Joes near you and have never been just go by and check it out, then do your own comparison shopping. I also take advantage of the fish markets in Chinatown, and the fruit and veggie vendors on the street. There is a vendor on the west side of 11th street across the street from where St. Vincent's hospital used to be he has the best deals on fruits, for example 5 fresh bananas for a buck! Where are some of your favorite places to shop for food/groceries?

Be Great,

The Diva

How Far a Pay Check Won't Go In New York City

I have lived in New York my entire life and trust me I love my city. . . But I also hate it. I work a city job but by no means am I middle class. I earn about $36,000 a year . In New York where a Metrocard which pays for my sole means of transportation is about to go up to possibly $125 a month, a son in private school, expenses oh yea I didn't even get to food yet. Living here can be depressing because all you do is work to stay a float and a lot of people are not even making it. Part of my reason for following my entrepreneurial spirits is for a second source of income. That's really the only way you can have a little something extra is if you follow your passions, and see them through. Although I have varied interests, skills and talents one thing I know for sure is if you are not earning $3500 a week in New York you are struggling! We have to teach our children to be smart with money, and to save. In some households there is a tossup between food and bills and which one will come first. To me that's sad and is something that shouldn't be. A few years ago I was homeless in NYC and although I never let myself get depressed enough to stay in the situation, I took an active approach to the situation and came to the decision that for me it was temporary. I am thankful to have come out of that situation, because I realize that so many people still don't have a place to call home. In New York it is easy to get caught up in overspending because we have access to everything. Whether its food, entertainment, music its here! I have learned to be a better shopper, take advantage of free events first, ask for discounts, and most importantly know how much I have to spend and stick to it!.I look forward to leaving NYC one day and living some place where my money will go a lot further, and help a community.

Be Great,

The Diva

Does Cursing at your Children have long term effects on their behavior?

Cursing at your children.. On a daily basis I’m either on the subway or just walking down the street and notice parents cursing at their children. The thing that bothers me is they are usually small children like under 5. I am wondering if there are any long-term effects as a result of this? Most times the parents are frustrated and just react in anger. I am not a psychologist nor am I mother of the year but in my almost 17 years of being a parent I have never cursed at or hit my child.I guess as my son gets older and eventually has his own family one day, I will get to see the impact if any. We live in a society where we are constantly told if you see something say something. Does this rule apply to negative aspects that may come along with the daily struggles of parenting?

Would love to know your thoughts

Peace,
The Diva

I'm a Hustler Baby . . . . .

So I went to see Jay-Z at the recently opened Barclays center which I have to admit is Beautiful.I love the simplicity of the interior everything is Black and White. The stage and sound is amazing and bless their hearts for adding padding to the seats. As a teenager in the 90's in the South Bronx listening hip hop was inevitable. Although I love all music the 90's was an epic musical era. Fast forward to 2012 this was my first time seeing   Jay-Z in concert, I am not a Beyonce fan and to be honest if I had a choice between seeing  Beyonce and No Doubt, Gwen would win every time. That being said I have to admit I enjoyed the show! The nostalgia that came with some of the songs brought back some great memories, but it also reminded me why I am an entrepreneur. Jay-Z at the conclusion of the show gave a little speech about how and where he grew up and not as part owner of this team and an investor of this stadium he has come full circle. That resonated with me for a few reasons but mainly growing up in the housing projects is no easy task whether you are a male or female. In order to navigate through the negativity and stay on top is sometimes virtually impossible. As a female your options are usually teen pregnancy or dropping out of school. As a male its getting someone pregnant, going to jail, joining a gang, selling drugs or all of the above. If you can overcome these obstacles you have a survival instinct that can't be bought for any amount of money or taught in any of the Ivy league or Best B Schools. Why you ask? because you have to go through the experience. You can empathize by reading case studies, or watching a documentary but you can't have a real reaction or figure out an actual strategy until it happens to you. The term entrepreneur to me is just a glorified and politically correct term for a hustler. You are taking what you know how to do, and figuring out a way to profit from it. When I see kids on the subway selling candy it makes me think, these kids are whats needed in the world they are not afraid of taking the risk, they are determined and creative depending on what they say they are selling the candy for. Why can't someone invest in them, develop them and put them into the world to do great things before the not so great things claim them. . . .

Be Great,

The Diva

At What Age Do you Teach Your Children to Start Giving Back?

I am big on philanthropy and volunteering. I enjoy helping others and think its important not only for my own self fulfillment but because it sets a good example for my son. From an age when we are very small one of the first lessons we are taught is to share. This is very important, and more people should do it. I guess this is why I am always drawn to projects that involve some aspect of me giving back. Youth Development and inspiring young people is something I am very passionate about. I think the only way we can truly change the world is by setting examples as adults, and as parents. If you are an avid volunteer, or you make monetary or clothing donations to charities find a way to have these conversations with your child no matter their age. These imprints will impact their lives immensely. I used to work with the homeless population of youth in New York City and took my soon there frequently, not to show him how lucky he has it, instead to show him that people are human and it just so happens although we weren't homeless there was nothing preventing us from being in that situation at any time. There were mothers with children, they did not love their children any less than I loved him. Those are not factors. Everyone has a story. Everyone is human. This reality also keeps me grounded.So next time you go volunteer at a soup kitchen, or are packing up clothes for goodwill grab your kids not only to help but to tell them Why. . .  .


Be Great,
The Diva

The Freshman Parent. . .

So I am an adult learner. I had my son at the age of 18 and decided to start college at the age of 33. Yes! You read that right I went to college 15 years later. High school graduation 1995 College Graduation 2013. I decided to go back to school on a bet. I was constantly venting to a friend on how frustrated I was within my current position and although its been 10 years since I've had to look for a job I was grateful yet frustrated. This friend listen ed to me whine and then fired back "you need to be in school".... I had heard that so many times before. The positions I've held, the places I've worked and the connections I made people never questioned why I didn't have a degree because of my experiences. There are a growing number of adults going back to school now some having been out of the class room 25 years or more. This is amazing! We are never too old to learn. I was fortunate and smart enough to use my time in between high school and college wisely. I am raising an amazing son who I am proud of everyday, I have a fabulous connection with my clients and friends and I have traveled all over the world and have so many interests and integral steps that have contributed to my journey. What I want to share with other parents especially moms that may be considering going back to school, taking a class or finishing a degree. STOP THINKING! Do it! Don't feel guilty about leaving the kids, because one day the kids are going to leave you and you will be grateful for it. If you have little ones look into online classes, and have a sitter watch the baby for a few hours while you "go to class" in your pj's. Nothing but good can come from it. By having my degree I am furthering my mission,taking stock in myself and becoming a better role model for my son. If you are really having doubts and need some extra words of encouragement or help finding the right program send me an email taneeshac@me.com and we can work it out! There is no reason at any age we can't be educated and phenomenal and the time is NOW!

Stay Smart,
The Diva

My Body . . . Finally! Real Women with Real Courage!

I had the honor of being asked by a great friend of mine Melissa King to participate in a video campaign to discuss women and body images. The experience was one that I am grateful for because there are so many negative images of women out there, or just airbrushed to perfection which is just as damaging. To hear other women not only be able to say what they may dislike about their bodies but have the confidence to embrace it, and share that with the world is truly inspiring! I am so glad to have been a part of this awesome project, if you want more info on Melissa and the amazing work she does I am including her contact info as well!

Be Great,
The Diva


Melissa King
My Heart Dances
http://www.myheartdances.com/

From Bitter to Better

Today was an exhausting day but a great one! I had a few meetings and then spent the afternoon talking to students specifically Juniors about their future. Students always think I'm mean or unapproachable which I appreciate it. Once they get to know me they understand why. My message and my mission comes not only from a place of love but it's also because I have been exactly where they are. The place I have called "my job" for the last 5 years was also my junior high school 20 years ago. I emphasized to them that the real world can be a great place and a not so nice place. It's what you make it. If you decide you're going to be a thug then that's the type of energy you will attract if you decide you want to do something with your life you will be surrounded by people willing to help you. I also told them to not fall into the false world of believing that because you are from a certain neighborhood that's all your worth. It's bullshit. I've come from a tough place and have been through a lot of rough experiences but it wasn't until I let go of the anger and took control of my life did I start to see the benefits. We have to get pass the Bitter so we can Move on to Better.


Peace,
The Diva

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Happy October!!

I love this time of year! To see the colors of the leave changing, the crisp in the air and snuggling under a big comfy blanket at night! Don't get me wrong I love Summer, like LOVE Summer but I am looking forward to breaking out my fuzzy boots, over sized sweaters and funky hats! Which reminds me I need to go shopping! So back to business, the reason I started this blog is because I wanted to share a lot of the great thing that happen in my life. On a daily basis whether its via the internet, newspaper or TV there is just so much tragedy and sadness that goes on and too much of that can make you depressed. Although I am a realist, everything has its opposite and for all of the bad things that are happening there is a lot of good going on too! So let me get too it! I am more than super excited about the launch of my website  I have been getting some great feedback and landed 2 projects because of it.

Its hard for me to put into words sometimes what I do when people ask me that dreadful question. I am interested in so many things so the website gives a glimpse into my world and all that goes on in my life.

I hope that you will enjoy reading what I have to say and I encourage you to keep in touch!

Xoxo,

Taneesha "The Diva"